13 most thought-provoking quotes from fictional characters

Sometimes the most relatable characters, the most meaningful lines, and the most eye-opening stories are fictional. The writers of these lines did an incredible job of bringing their stories to life and connecting with their audience through thought-provoking nuggets of wisdom. For each of these, consider what the writer is saying and think about how it can apply to your life.

 

  1. “If you’re dumb, surround yourself with smart people. And if you’re smart, surround yourself with smart people who disagree with you.”

– Isaac Jaffe, Sports Night

  1. “How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.”

– Winnie the Pooh

 

  1. “It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness; that is life”

– Jean-Luc Picard

 

  1. “Many that live deserve death. And some that die deserve life. Can you give it to them? Then do not be too eager to deal out death in judgment. For even the very wise cannot see all ends.”

-Gandalf

 

  1. If you look for the light, you can often find it. But if you look for the dark, that is all you will ever see.

-Uncle Iroh

 

  1. “When we hit our lowest point, we are open to the greatest change”. – Aang.

 

  1. ‘Can a man still be brave if he’s afraid?’ ‘That is the only time a man can be brave,’ his father told him.”

A Game of Thrones – George R.R. Martin

 

  1. “You waste time trying to get people to love you, you’ll end up the most popular dead man in town.”

– Ser Bronn of the Blackwater

 

  1. “I survived because the fire inside me burned brighter than the fire around me”

– Joshua Graham from Fallout: New Vegas.

 

  1. “Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you.”

-Tyrion Lannister

 

  1. “You either die a hero or you live long enough to see yourself become the villain.”

-Harvey Dent, The Dark Knight (2008)

 

  1. “There are three things all wise men fear: the sea in storm, a night with no moon, and the anger of a gentle man.”

– Kvothe in The Wise Man’s Fear

 

  1. “I know what you would say, and it would sound like wisdom but for the warning in my heart.”

-Frodo

Bonus quote for laughs:

  1. “You Miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take” – Wayne Gretzky – Michael Scott.

What are some other meaningful quotes you know from fictional characters?

10 money saving tips that will change your life

Sometimes, it can be difficult for anyone to handle their money in a responsible manner. Here are some tips to help you on your journey to frugality.

 

 

        1. Due to modern marketing, new and exciting products are constantly battling for our attention. Whenever you feel the urge to purchase a non-necessity, give yourself a couple of days before you buy it. Often times, the impulse will have passed and you’ll be glad to still have the money.
        2. Whenever you’re about to buy something, think about how many hours wages it cost. If the amount of work you put in outweighs the value of the item you’re purchasing, forget it
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        3. Be aware of where your money is going. These days everyone is signed up to dozens of subscriptions that charge you monthly. Make sure you are will to be paying for these. Look at your bank statement every once in a while and actually find out where your money goes.
        4. Every payday, take half of what you have left over after paying bills and put it into a savings account. It won’t seem like much at first, but over some time it will grow into a substantial amount.
        5. Only eat out at a restaurant once or twice a week(depending on how much you make). The cost of those meals add up quickly so by cooking your own food more often, you can save this money for other necessities. When you do eat out, get water with your meal and instantly save $2-4.\
        6. This one doesn’t go for everyone. I am not a coffee drinker so I don’t need to worry about this at all. But the majority of my family (and everyone else in America) drinks coffee on the daily. The problem is coffee at star bucks or your other favorite place costs a fortune after you’ve been there a few times. Try buying the coffee beans and making your coffee at home. Not only will you save a ton of time, but your bank account will feel some relief as well.
        7. Use a credit card for everything! It might sound weird but hear me out. Making every purchase with a credit card will help you build credit. As long as you pay it off every month, it won’t really be different from a debit card, except you will earn $100’s in reward cash throughout the year.
        8.  Make a spreadsheet to track everything you spend. Rent, groceries, utilities, misc. At the end of the day or after a night out, enter your expenses real fast before you crash. This way, you will never be surprised when your bank account balance is at 40 cents. (hopefully, you have a plan to get out of that one). There are even some apps that do essentially the same thing and save you time that you’re not logging onto the computer.
        9. Buy things at the end of the month. How many times have you approached the end of the month with an intense worry that you won’t be able to pay the bills? You think “Man, I shouldn’t have spent $500 on that memory foam mattress”. To avoid this, wait until the end of the month before you buy anything extra that you want. This will teach you to be more responsible with the money you make. Plus, getting the necessities paid for first makes you feel more deserving of whatever you want to spend your extra money on.
        10. Final tip: Do not constantly chase everything you want. Look at your parents and/or grandparents. They didn’t start out with a house full of appliances, electronics, and adornment. Learn to accumulate things over time and take your spending step by step. Build your financial future like you would build a house. One day at a time.

 

Which one of these tips will you use to improve your financial life? What are some other tips you have tried that work well?

21 best pieces of advice for a successful life

Through life, we occasionally come in contact with people whose wise words resonate greatly with us. They impact us to live better or different lives and make us into who we will eventually become. Here are 21 pieces of the best advice for a successful life:

      1. Know who your true friends are, look for the ones who say good things behind your back and constructive criticism to your face.
      2. The grass isn’t greener on the other side, it’s greener where you water it.
      3. Don’t worry about controlling your emotions. Control your actions. The experience of emotions is outside our control, but our response to them is not.
      4. Be the person you needed in life.
      5. You don’t get paid based on how hard you work. You get paid based on how hard you are to replace.
      6. The only measure of a man that matters is from the eyes up.
      7. Have more than you show, speak less than you know (this one I live by).
      8. No one who is great at something was always great at it.
      9. Anything that annoys you when you’re dating, you’re going to get from both barrels when you’re married.
      10. The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago, the second best time is today.
      11. In order to get something you never had, you have to do something you’ve never done.
      12. The person in control of any relationship… is the person who cares about it the least.
      13. You can always tell someone to go to hell tomorrow – Warren Buffet.
      14. If you don’t like what you’re doing, do something else.
      15. The only time you look in your neighbor’s bowl is to make sure that they have enough. You don’t look in your neighbor’s bowl to see if you have as much as them.
      16. If you willingly associate with people of poor character, you deserve what happens next.
      17. Don’t make promises when you’re happy and don’t make decisions when angry.
      18. Stop blaming other people for your problems and take responsibility for yourself.
      19. If someone is trying to bring you down, it only means you are above them.
      20. Never make someone a priority who only makes you an option.
      21. Sometimes the best way to solve your own problems is to help someone else.

A number of these have helped me out in my personal life.

Leave a comment and let me know which one was your favorite and why!

Why you need to spend time in nature

I often think about if George Washington were to come back, what would be his thoughts?

I imagine he would come back and say something like this, “Where is everyone? All I see are buildings!?”

You might think that sounds absurd. There are 7 billion people in the world today as opposed to only 1 billion in Washington’s day. What would make him say that?

Perhaps this isn’t a perfect comparison, but the point I am trying to make is this.

These days, far too many people ensconce themselves inside their cozy little homes all day instead of getting out and spending time in nature.

It’s sad really. I strongly accredit this to the rise of depression over the last few decades. Secluding yourself indoors with only virtual access to other people can (and has) contributed to multiple mental disorders in young and old people alike.

So how do we fix this.

Well, I think it’s quite a bit easier than it seems. It’s all about “positive distractions“.

branches, dolmen, nature

How and why this works

Consider a situation where you go through something hard. Perhaps a rude comment someone made or maybe a breakup. Subsequently, you often go into a state of rumination in these situations. Rumination is simply deep and consistent thought about something.

That rumination leads you to thought paths and to conclusions that you should not go. “Maybe we shouldn’t have broken up” or, “I should go beg for my job back”. Deep thought is not erroneous unless it leads us to silly actions.

A study has shown that rumination occurs in the same region of the brain that generates negative emotions. This brain region is called the subgenual prefrontal cortex. Depression can begin to develop in the brain if rumination continues for too long.

So what can stop it according to this study?

A nice walk through the meadow!(or any other uncultivated part of nature)

The study demonstrated how a short walk through a rural area(not urban) can reduce activity in the subgenual prefrontal cortex, thus calming the brain down and preventing the on-set of depression.

Find the study here.

Snow Capped Mountains Under Blue Sky and White Clouds

Find your fun

You might be thinking, this is easy for someone who lives out in the middle of nowhere! But what about for someone who lives in the city?

Essentially all that is required for this is getting away from all of the negative distractions in a city. The easiest and most effective way to do this, of course, is to leave the city.

So, taking a weekend to travel out into the countryside is just what you need. You can go camping, fishing, hiking, or anything that will help you forget about civilization for a while.

For me, I have come to love camping after going on a few short trips over the course of a couple years. Because I live in one of the largest cities in the world, it was tough in the beginning to organize and plan these weekend endeavors, but after a while, it became easier and even a spur of the moment kind of thing. I might’ve had a tough week at work/school and knew that I needed some time away, so I’d pack a few meals, a tent, a sleeping bag, and head out to one of my favorite spots.

These trips always give me an overwhelming sense of refreshment and energy when I need them most. I can always feel the mental burden being lifted while I relax, even if it’s only for a few hours.

Conclusion

I think we as humans were meant to spend the majority of our time in the world that has been created for us. When we build up our homes to the point where we rarely need to venture outside of them, our dependency on nature takes a substantial hit. Although, not without side effects as we can see from the 60 percent increase in suicide rates in the past 50 years — according to the NY Times.

The countries with the largest increases?

Developing countries.

Places where people are beginning to learn what life is like in a comfortable home — a place where you can seclude yourself from absolutely everything for as long as you want.

Ok, maybe not as long as you want. We have jobs and other things to do outside of the home but you understand what I am asserting here.

Final point: Get outside every now and again.

Outside everything. Your house. Your car. Your city.  Your life.

Enjoy the world that has been made for you and you will reap the benefits.

What are your thoughts about this?

How do you define success?

What is a life that has been completed? What is a future that has been fulfilled? I could sail across the world and see all that has been built. But when my life begins to wither and my legacy start to melt, I wonder as I look to heaven “Will I even last myself”?

I live in America. The land of opportunity and home to the fearless.

Or is it the land of the greedy and home to the narcissist? I think that is for all of us to decide ourselves.

Either way, this is a capitalist society where the ultimate goal, the “American Dream” as we call it is financial prosperity. This society revolves completely around money. We look for any and every way to get it because we love it that much.

But consider this.

Prosperity corrupts good character. The love of money makes a humble person greedy, and the possession of money makes a trustworthy person untrustworthy. Opportunity turns to greed and freedom turns to slavery.

This is the cycle. The sad thing is so many get trapped in it and so little find their way out. Is there even a way out?

Well, allow me to suggest something else.

The American Dream is wrong(or simply misinterpreted). The way we view prosperity is wrong.  Money is not the end goal on the road to success.

No, I believe success to be something very different. Something you cannot hold in your hand or use to get ice cream on a summer afternoon.

The byproducts of success should not be your own satisfaction and prosperity, but the joy and love you show to others. Because if you are truly succeeding, you won’t be the only one impacted.

Do you want to lead a meaningful life? Do you wish to be successful? Well first, you must know how success is measured. It is not calculated by the amount of dollars you give away, or even the amount of hours you spend doing humanitarian work.

No, it is defined by the way you love.

Let me explain.

Love is not the feeling a player has toward his sport. If it were, he would expect no salary.  People who say they love their cars do not really love their cars. Because if it stopped running one day, they would simply find other means of travel.

What is the one thing that doesn’t envy? Love

What is the one thing that expects absolutely nothing in return? Love

What is the one thing that will outlast every single one of us? Love

When a family member gets sick, do you give up on them? Of course not! You join their fight and encourage them until the day their time is up.

That is love.

And what can fill the void that loved one left? Nothing really.

Because love is unique. It provides a satisfaction that nothing else can. Not money. Not fame. Not your legacy.

Imagine this. You have a bag of apples but only one is left. After this, you will never be able to eat anything ever again. You look up and see a man who is alone and obviously hungry, so you decide to approach this man and give him your apple to eat. That is love.

But what makes love different?

It’s simple. Love has an eternal award.

I will leave you with these words.

 One day when you find yourself with one last breath, just a few seconds left, I guarantee your wish won’t be one last dollar to spend. It’ll be one last evening with your family and friends or one more apple to give to that man. Then your fear of death will fade away as you remember the words they used to say, “there is no fear in love, my death won’t be in vain.”